Thomas had an affair.
Gina has embarrassed Carlos in front of their closest friends.
LuAnn learned that Raymond wasn’t completely honest with her about the cost of a recent purchase.
Royce looks on several years of marriage in which he’s felt prohibited from pursuing his interests.
Renee finally has a “voice” in her marriage, but is realizing how much resentment she’s built up for not feeling “seen” or “heard” for over 20 years.
Many of the couples I work with have experienced some painful incident that keeps them from “moving on” with their relationship. In therapy these couples often say, “We want to move on, but we don’t know how to get beyond this. How do we put this behind us?”
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